The biggest mistake in setting goals?
You’ve asked us a lot about goal setting (we prefer goal getting but w/e) lately, and we f*ckin love it.
We want each and every human on this planet to pursue THEIR goals. The things that make them come alive and feel their best. The things that bring meaning. The things that make this one amazing life meaningful, purposeful and fun.
But not everyone does.
What stops them?
We don’t believe it’s a lack of drive or will.
We don’t think it’s laziness.
We believe… it’s a lack of alignment.
Not being clear on WHY they are pursuing what they are pursuing.
Too many people pursue a fitness endeavor, a career or even a relationship because they think they “should”. Too often goals come from trying to prove something to everyone else, keep up with the Jones’s (can we meet these said Jones’s?) or pursue something because...
We used to refuse to buy lululemon sports bras.
Way too expensive.
Who pays THAT much for a sports bra, we thought?
Must be nice, we muttered. Sigh (don't even get us started on "must be nice").
Uncomfortable workouts, chaffed boobs, sometimes wearing two sports bras at once (maybe just Mel… yep definitely just Mel) and buying 78 new ones when they just kept wearing out, we put our egos aside and stopped kidding ourselves. We could spend $18 on a spicy marg but were shorting ourselves on something we CLAIMED to value.
Cheap investments get cheap results.
Short term commitment brings short terms results.
Quick fixes offer quickly fading results.
Value… way different than a the $$ on a price tag.
Trust us, we totally get it when people are apprehensive in investing in their 12-week transformation.
But we also know they are either not REALLY looking for change or they aren’t acting in...
Sunday Scaries, Anyone?
We are so over them.
They are kind of a mix of buyer’s remorse from #weekending (it’s a thing) combined with angst of returning to work, routine and maybe it’s all topped with the pressure of getting “back on track.” Meaning eating all the salads, doing all the workouts and vowing to never eat Chinese food at 2am, again.
No wonder you are scared.
Reality Check: We’re human. We are social beings. Chinese food is delicious.
When you restrict your body of certain things and build your mentality around “on and off track” you set yourself up for binging… it’s like once you start you feel like you “ruined everything” so mine as well keep on going on this path of ruin.
Not only does this mess with your body, it messes with your belly, damages your gut and certainly your mind.
Our MOVE. Method teaches how to abandon the track through mind, body and belly...
Have you seen our #FridayFuel posts on Instagram?
You all know we loveeeeee ourselves some IG!
Well, if you haven't, each week we search for all sorts of meals and snacks proclaiming to be healthy (some specifically claim to be gut health... sigh) and we give it the "yay" or "nay" on the #moveapproved stamp.
Not surprisingly, they generate a TON of questions. So we figured we would share some of the guidelines that go into making the cut.
We’ll be honest, we both struggled with the counting, the pressures, the fat-free (cheese, ice-cream, butter, bread, pretzels and everything else). We...
Last week we asked what the community wants to see more of, and boy did we hear ya.
Stress Reduction. Got it.
Cue: 4 MOVE.s To Reduce Stress.
Before diving in, we want to remind you that it's not a realistic expectation to want to go through life stress-free. In fact, studies show that healthy amounts of stress are positive, they create growth. We find that allowing stress to be FEEDBACK for our needs and next steps in the key in transforming it from overwhelming to empowering. If you know us at all, we aren't trying to combat stress with white robes, vacations to escape or luxurious days at the spa. That's a bandaid. But we are all for caring for ourselves in ways that make those (fun) days a place for pleasure instead of escape.
Here are our 4 MOVE.s to Manage Stress:
1- Awareness: Where is your energy going? Not in general. SPECIFICALLY, where is it going? Think of it like a bank account. Track all of your time, thought and attention. Write it out (we...
We confess- we don't do a whole lot of baking because measuring and attention to detail isn't our zone of genius. At all. But we will certainly make an exception for these... anytime.
Wait? We aren't talkin' matcha?
We've been getting a lot of questions on how to take passions and transform them from a hobby to a business. As we entered our own Q2 with new goals and new MOVE.s ahead, we wanted to share 5 MOVE.s To Bring You Growth.
1- Figure Out where your skillset, passion and ability to serve merge. Don’t force it, don’t fake it and don’t only focus on you. Show up to serve.
2- Test The Waters. Get a small group to give you feedback. Thought to action to reflection (we see you, Ayurveda). Continue this cycle. There is no finish line to growth.
3- Invest In yourself. You can’t expect anyone to invest in you if you aren’t invested in yourself. The more value you have to offer, the more you can authentically give. The more you can authentically give, the more you can serve.
4- Take Messy Action. Perfection Paralysis is real. There will never be a perfect time. No one cares if your webpage colors...
Never Miss ATuesday. Taco Tuesday, that is.
We are sharing of our favorite guac recipe inspired by our favorite tacos (s/o Stacey!)
Heart MOVE.ing Guac:
4 avocados, smashed.
1 jalapeno diced.
The juice of 1-1.5 limes.
1 full tomato, diced.
1 red onion, diced.
Himalayan sea salt.
Cracked black pepper.
Skip the cilantro- Load up on cayenne pepper.
Chopped seared shrimp.
Diced grilled mushrooms.
Sprinkle of Matcha. Lol. Kidding. Wait, are we?
You probably know we met over (infamous) puke (hey Timmy!), but did you know that we bonded over a shared love for Cinco De Mayo? How are you celebrating the holiday? Our plans are to load up on green drinks than this green dip... and toast to a year of incredible MOVE.s.
Gut health is all the talk right now and there’s one major reason I believe that this “trend” is here to stay; it works….. at the end of the day, we were DESIGNED to digest our food. We were literally made to create humans, we can handle eating. We just need to stop complicating things and then spending our time, money and energy trying to figure out how to uncomplicate it.
Digestion is a huge energy source; what we eat is supposed to give us energy but eating (and digesting) requires energy. Think about it like a bank account, fueling should be a deposit but for many, it acts as a withdrawal. They don’t understand why they are tired, bloated, foggy or not getting results that they are working for.
I have a weird relationship with gut-health as I lost my daughter to a sick gut, at the time not even knowing it was a “thing.” In my healing I began running, honoring a promise I made to her and finding my way on the Boston...
1) Scope the menu out in advance. Plan accordingly.
If there is something you really want to get that is on the heavier side, choose lighter foods during the day. Consider what alterations you might want to make in advance so you aren’t feeling rushed or anxious asking the wait staff in front of a group. If there is nothing that fits within your diet plan/program suggest another place. If you dinner is for work or a situation where you cannot change the location, eat something within your diet program before you go. Remember, if you CAN’T change the restaurant, this likely means your social situation isn’t about food. It’s about networking, business, or an event. So then don’t make it about food. Eat what you can before and focus on the purpose of the event.
2) Drink a lot of water before you go out to eat.
Many times our bodies think we are hungry, but we are actually thirsty or craving NUTRITION NOT FOOD (Next week, we discuss the way...